I'm going to say to everyone, these two people entered in a Christian marriage. Many of you have attended a Christian marriage, so there for putting negative vibes towards them is not right. Marriage is hard work. They both have to put forth the effort to make it work. We should be putting effort for them to stay together to keep the family together. Now that they have a family, it's more than just him or her they need to consider. When Tameka married Usher, she knew Usher had obligations to his career. She should of asked, "How much will the career will take him away from the home, how much will I have to sacrifice in spending quality time and affection from you?" And there are many, many more questions that needed to be answered before they got married, but that's mute point now. On the other hand, Usher should always put his family first with their needs being meet. He should of gotten to know how much time he needs to spend with his wife and children and renegotiated with the wife about his time and give some realistic time frames for Tameka to work with and understand. Tameka needs a support system to help her with the times he's not there, Usher should not completely cater to her insecurities, nor should he ignore them either. Both of them took the vows and need to up hold them. He will never be the same if he lets her go. Most people who have been married, do not really ever get over being separated even if the other person looks or seems happy to gotten away. Marriage ties you together in unspoken ways not viewable by the public eyes. I hope they read this post, that they come together and set their pride down and work to having their family back with the good and the bad. They need to get some support going on for both of them, such as counseling to work this out. They need are support too. Can you really say you support tarring down a family? What kind of person are you projecting out in this world to be doing that? Marriage is not a fad, these people are not just fads either, nor should we look at their life as being one. This is a mature perspective, and that's what they need, not the crap that coming out from you. I want to see more strong black families work them out. It's too many not succeeding. And not just black families, but all American families need to succeed for our childrens' sake and our own souls. It's hard enough to come together with two people let alone a massive hate filled day coming from the public, you wouldn't like it if it was your life. Where's the love or the common good in you?
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TheBlessedOne
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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